Keep doing what you are doing. I think you are doing good relax and try not to be to anxious. Forget about her statement of "I don't want you to think you have a chance" just don't even think about it since in reality she really does not know what she wants. Be plesant around her be her friend.
Me - 34 W - 33 S - 5 D - 4 M - 14 years Bomb 1 Dec 06 Bomb 2 Aug 07 Separated - Aug 07 WAW Renting own place - Dec 07