sh- Frankly I think February 14 is going to be more depressing than today! Really let's think positively that things will get better from here on out.
I know what you are saying about not having the kids split between two worlds when parents don't get along. My kids have been living that just about all their lives. But that being said, I think it is so important for kids to have both their parents in their lives. It is up to the parents to try to be as civil as possible...I just wish I had been more successful at it.
We need to come up with a way to get our H's out of our heads...maybe a labotomy???...brainwashing???...I know what works the best is to find another guy but we aren't ready to go there!