What would that look like, i.e., specifically: words, actions, gestures, etc.
Well, take it back a step or two. Part of being strong is being self-aware, so strong bunny would go into an encounter knowing/vibing that she likes to cuddle. Another part of being strong is feeling confident and fully justified and differentiated in your preferences. For instance, if somebody said to strong bunny "A lot of guys don't like to cuddle after sex." or "Liking physical affection like that seems kind of weak to me.", strong bunny would just say "That's interesting. I like to cuddle after sex.". (By analogy, strong monkey might feel similarly and make similar comments about an issue like breast stimulation.) Anyways, as MrsCac noted, it is the case that because strong bunny is so self-aware and confident about her desire for cuddling that she is more likely to be cuddled because she is signaling "I like to cuddle" rather than "I need to be cuddled" and it is also the case that she would just shrug it off if she wasn't cuddled but quite possible choose to no longer have sex with that guy for much the same reason that strong monkey would choose to no longer have sex with a guy who disregarded strong signaling for breast stimulation. The reason that the guy doesn't share her preferences doesn't matter in the least. If strong bunny hopped into a diner and found that it didn't serve carrot cake, the reason for such a sad absence of vegetable based baked goods wouldn't matter either. Although she might say "I see you have no carrot cake. That's too bad. I might become a regular customer if you did."
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