That is an awful scene. The thing is he was just trying to get what he wanted when he wanted it. I don't know the divorce laws in your state. But I have learned that in some states you have to have grounds for a divorce. He has no grounds. You do. I think despite his ranting, it will have to be you who puts a divorce through. Personally, I think you and D3 should not take this abuse and endangerment. It is only a matter of time before something bad will happen.
I have known of an alcoholic husband who stopped drinking when his wife left him and took the kids. Unfortunately for him, her high school boyfriend had looked her up in the meantime, and she was long gone by the time the husband got his head straight. Never met a happier woman!
