Can I ask you something... You being the same sign as my H.. I just called him, he's on his way to the city for work.. He says to me that hes stressed out.. and I said why?? He said he's feeling insecure about me?? I said what are you worried about.. He said just being with me.. I told him he had nothing to worry about...
Is this Something I SHOULD be worried about that he is feeling this way??
tal
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
I shall be emailing you and your good W tomorrow. Loved the music session story BTW - are your friends still talking to you? Hear you had some hot chick after you too..........
LOL. You must have been talking to the W. I don't know if my friends are still talking or not...I think I threw them for a little loop with that one. As for the hot chick....I let her catch me
That's a hard one to answer. I sometimes do get moments of insecurity about H but then my H did have an A!!!!!!!
IC's a Leo guy....... do you ever get stressed like tal was talking about with Mrs IC, IC?
If I am absolutely honest, tal, I get most stressed about H now when I know I have done something I shouldn't have, (nothing major - just spent money on something that I know would piss him off - something like that). I guess I do let my H act as my conscience a bit - as a leo I think I let myself get carried away in the moment, (we do like the BIG expansive gestures you know), and do things that are a bit too extravagant when I know deep down inside I shouldn't. (Shoes, books, WHIPS and stuff for my horse are my major downfalls - all of those things H thinks I spend way too much on!!!!!! - well NOT the whips ).
Of course, all these guilt feelings could equally be down to me being female rather than Leo as I think us ladies are rather more prone to feelings of guilt - so I am probably typing complete crap!!!!! (as usual).
One thing I would say though, is I get really low at this time of year and that makes me extremely stressy; I love the summer and the warm. My H, (capricorn), loves the winter and the dark days and snuggling up indoors. I like being out and about and long bright days.
I'm prattling - sorry; all these tax returns have used up what small amount of brain cells I had left after having children!!!!
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
Hey girl -- take a look over on SSM when you get a chance -- what a mess I've made!!! Oh well, onward & upward, at least I'm getting help so it can only get better. Although I think things are going to be pretty crappy for awhile before they get better, but I know I'm strong enough to handle it.
Hope you're doing ok. I was going to send you an email about "it" all coming out finally, but didn't have a chance to this a.m. My parents know what's going on too.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
Send me that email. I am having major issues on same thing at the moment. Ended up flat on my back again yesterday with the pain. Managed to talk my doc into more valium and stronger pain killers and looks like I am going back to the pain clinic again soon. Everytime I try knocking them down I end up flat on my back and upping the damn things again. I should be around most of the day apart from when I see the osteopath. I keep hoping for a miracle cure but know deep inside that the reason for my pain isn't going to go away probably.
I am thinking of you hon. Email me.
(((((HUGS))))))))
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
For all my good friends I haven't posted to recently I apologise. Just as I finish my tax returns my neck flattens me. I will catch up with you all in time.
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Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
Hear you had some hot chick after you too.......... 