Theoden, I will try to avoid the counseling topic again. I really don't have that many stories about them, and did not bring that up to make a point to H or anything. I was just relating the story of what happened to my friend. We had been curious to find out why she had divorced, and then when I found out, I was telling him. It just happend to strike a cord in him, and as you say, he "lashed out". Maybe he realizes he should be going through marriage counseling or something or he misinterpreted that I was trying to make a point with my story (which I honestly wasn't)? This is probably a stupid question, but how do you increase your personal power? I do feel that I am feeling stronger each day, although I sometimes have occasional setback days like when he asked for the date night, but I rallied as quickly as I could. Thanks again to all who have helped me here!!!
