Hi, Thanks for you response. I am doing okay. I just spent a long weekend w/ a friend that fed my ego the whole weekend. The "you don't need him, screw him" attitude is all she talked about. Friends can be so funny when they are trying to protect you. Anyway, my thought is to distance myself a little this week. He stopped on Saturday to use his computer and then he called yesterday and I didn't return his call. He brought up dinner this week and I originally said I wanted to go. Now my thought is to tell him this week will not be good after all b/c I am tired after having my friend in from out of town and could be maybe do it next week?....I mentioned in another post that I have never postponed a plan w/ him. When he first moved out he said that he wanted to do New Years Eve together and then we told me 2 days later he was getting his own place (by the way, he left it that info on my voicemail) I told him that I didn't think that it was a good idea to spend that evening together. He acted like he was fine about it and then later on, told my next door neighbor that he didn't want to spend the evening alone after all. He is so hard to gauge. I am not sure if I should play hard to get. When I have avoided his calls, he seems indifferent and then when I do take them, he seems nice and always asks me questions about what I am doing and where I am going. I am so confused about what to do! Brita
