H tried to intiate things with me last night. A slight female issue prevented that. He got angry at first, but after I explained my denial, he relaxed.
Sue, why would you even CONSIDER having sex with someone who said THIS to you:
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-You're lame -I want to be with OW because her personality blows you away. -If I compare you and OW, you're a can of bad soup and she's a meal at a fine restaurant. -When we get back to MN, we are starting D proceedings. -You don't give me what I need. -I hope you find someone who makes you happy and who you can make happy, because you sure don't make me happy. -I know you have talked to OW's H too. By the way, OW hates his guts and wants me.
If you're going to say "I know he was just drunk," then you need to tell him he either needs to get help for his drinking, NOW, or you and your daughter are leaving.
If you would have considered having sex with him (other than the female issue) even if he said those things to you SOBER, then you need to get into some serious individual counseling to figure out why you would do that.
I haven't read thru all 10 of your previous threads, so maybe I'm missing something, but this is just incomprehensible to me why you allow him to treat you this way.
