Im glad bil was there for you and understands what is going on. I do fear that your H does have a drinking problem and this will only make matters worse for everyone involved. He needs to get help.
You really have to take care of you and your D.. I cannot believe how mean and selfish this man is. But I can tell how truly stronger you have become, he said some really nasty things to you and you remained calm.. Its almost like he has done so much damage what more can he say to really make you feel bad...
He not winning this one, you are. You have remained calm and collected and I think this irritates him.. he wants you to beg and plead with him and that moment is already gone.
Its amazing to me that he is still thinking about "going away with all of you".. wth???? He's lost it.. Im sure you are confused as he** but you need to just blow off things when he says stuff like that because you never know if he serious or not, or just playing mind games with you.
I'm worried about you, he has really become abusive... keep your distance from him for awhile.. Nothing he said is true.. You are a great person and mother and he is a lost soul.
(((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))
tal
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
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