Thanks so much for the advice. My H came to the house on Saturday to work on our computer for his work. We had brief conversation and it was easy going. He hugged and kissed my cheek. He had brought up going to dinner this week and he asked me again on Saturday if this Wednesday would work. We had gone to dinner a almost 2 weeks ago and had a good time b/c relationship was not brought up. We then had that conversation last week where he told me that nothing has changed since he moved out and he just wants to be by himself and "chill". My thought is to let him know that I think dinner would be fun, but to postpone to next week b/c this week is not ideal. This would be the first time that I would be pushing back seeing him since this whole ordeal started. My thought is that maybe he needs to miss me a little. The hard thing is that I also would want to go see him, have another great time and leave it at that. What do you think? Should I push it off to next week saying that I am tired I just had a long weekend w/ a friend from out of town)and make him wait? Brita
