In fact 6 of the 11 excuses are related to physical attractiveness.
And it is a valid reason up to a point due to male sexual reliance on visual cortex recognition of .7 waist to hip ratios etc etc. As you may recall, lack of physical attraction was my 2bx's "reason" for LD unless I was looking really hot and then it became the fact that I was "too nerdy to f*ck" and maybe I could still stand to lose a few pounds and wear more attractive t-shirts. However, after we split up a great miracle occurred by which I magically became so physically attractive that my 2bx felt compelled to call me on the phone and lewdly proposition me after randomly spotting me in our local grocery store telling me that he thought that I looked a bit TOO hot when he saw me. Also, we can file under the heading of objective evidence the multiple comments from my post-separation swains along the lines of "hot", "soooo sexy", "pretty as a basket of speckled puppies", "lovely", "cute", "you made the old guys drool when they saw you" etc. etc. etc.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
