I was so hoping the family time would be an eye opener.. even a little.. for your H. The way he's acting on this trip is over the top. Refusing to take you to meet your friend is just mean and selfish. He's treating you like crap and you don't deserve it!
Sue, you are such a strong woman... why are you allowing him to treat you this way? Is it easier to put up with this in hopes that he'll wake up someday? That's not a criticism of your choices.. I just have to wonder ho and D3 befoing to go in his mistreatment of your and D3 before a very strong boundary goes up. I too grew up in a home with an alchoholic father and it took me a long time to realize that just how much I'd put up with that was unhealthy. I just worry about you and want you to know that he's went WAY beyond what a wife should be expected to put up with. I understand you staying, but want you to know that no one would have the right to be critical of you if you decided enough is enough.
Huggs Sue. I'll be out of town on business this week, but will continue to prypray for ya'll. You have my number if you need it!
