Spent the afternoon yesterday with some old friends watching football and just shooting the proverbial manure. It really brought back good memories. My 3 best friends were there a couple of wives....all in all a wonderful afternnon that made me realize that there are good people who care about me out there and that my W is not oxygen. While i was there (before everyone showed up), i got on the laptop to check my e-mails and low and behold W had sent me links to legal separation stuff and how to announce to your kids......Needless to say I was not amused and did send her an e-mail saying i am glad you are moving so quickly and enjoying yourself. She answered that she was having a very difficult time with this contrary to what i thought. I decided to get off my hosts computer and quite honestly forgot about my sitch for a couple of hours. When I got home my stepdaughter told me that wife had been very emotional all afternon.....W left to sleepover at other stepdaughter'S apt. since she had a very early appt. this A.M. i received a text message from her at 10 asking me how I was which I decided to ignore. I guess she was thinking about me but if she really needs to know how I am, he phone still works at home. I have made a decision to only answer messages that concern the kids, legal or house matters or an emergency. I will not respond to how are you and I miss you any longer. It is time for me to move to LRT. Getting back to yesterday, she would like me to continue to help pay the bills until the house is sold. Also since I do all the internet banking she wants me to continue that. In esence it is status quo other than the fact that I am moving in with my parents. She already had the MIL pencilled in for Sunday night babysitting duties. I told her that i woud leave when i am ready and that our D7 is my #1 priority.
Phone just rang and it is her asking how I am.
More news after our talk scheduled for this evening.
