So I met the OM at the club so we were in a very public place. I already had a drink so he got one as well. He said he was happy I suggested the meeting and then proceeded to tell me how he regrets everything and wishes that he could turn back time, that he ruined a friendship between him and my W, between us and between the 4 of us as couples. I said it is not easy for me and I am not a hating man, yet when I see him I sometimes feel hate and other strong emotions. We talked a little about curling, we used to play together so he watched me play a brilliant game just a few weeks ago and how he enjoyed it.
I felt real remorse and regret, not that it makes it ok, but I feel that he will most likely not re offend. The club started to get busy so other people joined us, he said maybe not the best place to meet, but now when I look back it was probably good because it broke up the meeting so to speak.
I told my wife when I came home and she was fairly emotionless, I think it is just another event in this whole episode and it is another reminder of what they did, both good and bad. I know she is still holding it all in, so I will try to be patient and wait. All in all, I feel better and I think it will help us in the long run re build our marriage and put this all behind us.
I have a feeling I will be seeing the OM soon for a follow up session,
Have a wonderful day and if you are in the north, stay warm,
