Help H in major MLC

[Treese]

Merel;

All you have to do is contest the D!! Let your H do all the work..If he wants the D let him do the leg work...To me it sounds like your H is in a MLC....he doesn't know what he wants..and the OW is their bandaid...they think they are "in love" with her but it's just masking their own problems...it's all them not us.. I am still learning that...

My children are so sad...my D21 doesn't want anything to do with her dad and my D15 cries a lot.. my S10 is too young to really understand because heck dad still comes home..it's no different for him except dad sleeps in another room..7 months now.. Sad very sad..

I am learning a lot by coming to these boards..go to other threads..read and re read the posts. It helps, really it does, and ask for advice for some of the posters that have been through this..

Thing is if it's MLC, you're in for a loooonnnggggg rollercoaster ride.. I am at a year now that I know of...I could have been longer...but it has not been easy at all. I come here to vent and cry and get advice to get through a day..it's okay..everyone here is wonderful..


And are they crazy.....well, something like that..
(((Treese)))