Hi Jenny. Sorry you have hit a rough patch. I just wanted to remind you how stronge you are and how much you have helped others here. No one can change the fact that your H is a selfish A--hole right now. Someone mentioned the fact that the WAS floats in and out while we hold it together. That is so true and it puts so much pressure on us. Face it, the LBS are left to pick up the pieces. Glue can only hold a broken vase together for so long before it starts to leak. So leak when you need to and then pick up the pieces and put it back together.

As for your dear sister....I too have a precious on like that. There is some unspoked jealousy thing that has been going on for years. She is very into appearance and one uping everyone. She hasn't said one work to me about my sitch since she found out three months ago. Granted she is 3 hours away, but she has seen me twice since and said nothing not even I'm here if you need me. My other sis and my brothers have e-mailed, called, spoken when we saw each other to let me know I have their support. Even my ILs have shown more support than her. So you and I both know that our sisters need to work on themselves and they can't be a source of support for us.


Me: 41
H: 42
DDs: 10 & 15
M: 19yrs.
Bomb: June 2007
Separated:10/28/07
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