Real Growing and Healing 2

[phoenyx]

ok, anything that makes you think or overthink about her is stopping you from doing what needs to be done. if this is going to give you acceptance and allow you to detach from her emotionly, then ok cool. but don't spend a whole lot of time thinking about it/grieving about it, because it doesn't change your goal. you are giving her way to much energy, energy that would be better spent on yourself. why are you still robbing yourself of the energy and commitment that you need to take care of yourself? you know that is what you need to do, you have told me yourself. accept things for what they are, take care of yourself, and embrase whatever is there on the other side.