My baby sister told me that you dont find the right guy you train them into thinking you are great and should be treated with respect. (It is so great to be getting advice from her - she has so much attitude). How do you train them I hear you ask? Its like teaching a kid to finish their dinner - if they dont finish they dont get dessert.... You know that you are hot and so the "prize" is your attention. If they do something you dont like you withdraw your attention. But when they are being good you shower them with positive attention.
Do you think I can ring H and beg him to come back so I can "train" him? (Ha ha!!)
I'd really like to know how I missed out on the confidence and my sister got it all! I thought I was doing the right thing by 'working' on our relationship and being caring and thoughtful.... turns out I needed to respect myself first.
I hope DB is going to work for me, I really really missed H today.
