There is a married woman in Washington who May think her husband is the most wonderfull man in the world.... Little does she know....
I also agree with this.....but.....as OP is no longer 'messing' with your W and MAY NOT be messing with anyone else's ask yourself, do you want to hurt her like you have ben hurting. In this instance I would say it is about being kind to her. If it was still continuing or you KNEW OM was carrying on with his dallying I would say something different. Husband, you have taken the high road and been very kind and patient as that is who you are - and it's what we all love about you. I think it's what your W loves about you too.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength