So sorry to hear you're sick. I hate to say it, but the stuff we have going on down in SoCal hangs on forever. I've had some ick hanging on since early December...blecch! Not enough to keep me miserable, but enough to remind me I'm still not well. Now we've got the flu making the rounds!

Sounds like your H is really trying. Good for you for keeping the expectations low and the focus on you. That's detachment. Honestly, living in the moment and letting go of attachment is huge.

Take care of yourself!

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!