My friend calls it the bubble. The marriage we all had was self contained. For whatever problems there may have been, they were our problems. It is a special place. After an a affair that is gone. The marriage now has a third person in it. The very specialness of the two of you in your own world is gone. At least thats how it feels to me. I feel that to stay with my H, it will never be the same. It might be better in that we may learn about each other and ourselves, but that special place that only we had is forever gone. I don't know if that can be restored.....
