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Does W value her opinion?


I would have thought so at one time. But I can about guarantee that if my SIL should ever say anything to W that is not in support of W's current choices, my SIL would quickly find herself on the outside looking in, by W and by their mother. W and MIL now brook no difference of opinion when it comes to these matters.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.