Mojo If you ponder the reasons why you are so entrenched in your position, you may gain some insight into BB's parallel entrenchment.
I did life her way for a long time. Am endless tread mill of want, work, buy, want more, buy more, give away good stuf, buy more different new stuff.

Help, I am worn out. I hate that tread mill life style.

If she worked for what she wanted and paid taxes, house/car insurance, home repairs, car repairs, etc, then maybe she would appreciate what she dad and not want so many new things.

One mistake I made was to cover all of the esentials, while she spent "HER" money.

Yes there is nothing wrong spending like I had a dentist's income, trouble is, I am a craft person.

I suppose that is what I get for marrying a Dr's daughter, even if he died when BB was 4.

BTW, just sold $900 worth og "GOOD" used exercise equipment for $140-$30 for the add, net $110. BB's replacement equipment was ~$450. How is that for getting ahead?????

What is done is done, but no more.

Lou