I went and got a cute haircut today. Very DB! I've had this gift card to the mall since Xmas, so I went today and shopped a bit. I started chatting with a guy my age there, and he walked me to my car. He asked me for my number, which I gave him. He called later, and asked me out, and I said maybe another night. He knows I'm a mom, he knows I'm separated. Should I go out with him? If only for the sake of getting out of the house and having a few (much needed) laughs? Or is that just the kiss of death for my marriage?
Part of me thinks, well H is out dating and having sex and whatnot. Me going out on one or two dates isn't that bad. But then another part of me thinks, if I go out with this guy, that's just like sealing the deal on our divorce. And I'm not ready to do that yet.
Any thoughts??
*dated at age 12- 15 (me) and age 13-16 (him) *reunited at age 19 (me) and age 20 (him) *me 23, H 25 *married 3 1/2 years, 1 d *dropped ILYBINILWY bomb on 12/19/07 *moved out same day, PA with OW confirmed