W8ing ((((((hugs)))))) sounds like you handled it so well a is right..It wouldnt help to rant and scream and we would feel worse you told him what you needed nicely..maybe he will comply perhaps went we rant and inflict guilt they rebel more (mine does) so let it go for now I too as you know from my thread that I have also wanted to tell h all. but by some miracle I put it all off one day the time will be right maybe not today so, go to sleep tomorrow will be better and know you handled it great peace
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