Good attitude. Looking does not necessarily = moving out. And moving out does not have to = forever.
You and your h have both been through a lot these past few years. I think learning about MLC is important- and it sounds like you have alot of compassion for what your h is going through. That's great!
Originally Posted By: enlightenbylife
Should I talk to H and let him know that now I understand why he is in such a fog?
I wouldn't bring it up, but if he brings it up in conversation, you can validate. If you bring it up at the wrong time, he may take it the wrong way.
Originally Posted By: enlightenbylife
I don't think he even realizes the tie-in.
Try not to feel like now that you have this knowledge about mlc, that you can educate him. He may not be ready to hear that and he may not see the tie-in that is so obvious to you and me. I would just try to be there, but give him space, let him know that you're his friend.
