Porn, like alcohol or drugs, can become an addiction. But it really has nothing to do with sex, but more as a way of... medicating underlying pain.
What you said there can be true. but it is not always true. Just like people get addicted to alchohol, or drugs, or.. other things(sigh)... for different reasons.. people get addicted to porn for different reasons.
Sometimes, it really IS to do with sex.
So please dont try to tell people "porn is always about/never about...", Corri. 'cause whatever "always" or "never" you pick... it's not going to always be true.
ItsM: you need to confront your husband about it. You just need to do it in the most positive way you can figure out. and make it clear that when he has needs, he can always come to you. always. Hmm. even more than that... you want him to come to you. Take the advice of someone who has been through it directly.
Last edited by Dom R; 01/21/0801:32 AM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle