"Let me ask you this, Karen: can you tick off even a very short list for me of what have been the negative repercussions of your husband breaking his marriage vows, and of you knowing about his infidelity?"
From the kid's comments they think a lot less of him, my son doesn't have much of a relationship with him, and if he continues, I think my D8 will eventually have the same. If we reconcile, my H will have to go through months of counseling to repair the damage he has done to our relationship. He had a lot of respect from some people, like our pastor, and some friends and family members, that I think he has lost, as well. He's not feeling very good about himself as well: when I said I thought the OW was a slut or tramp or something early in the relationship, he said he was no better than her.
