Trixi movin' on up...

[Trixi]

Update:
Went on date with H on Friday.
Met him at the old (our) house. It was a disaster (stuff everywhere), obviously he had had guys over- drink glasses, etc around. In fact, he gave me a hard time about wearing my shoes indoors and I said "because I don't want to get my socks dirty!". It was a joke (the floors weren't THAT dirty) but it obviously was no longer a "shoes off" house.

Anyway, I noticed that all the pictures of 'us' in the living room were face down. Not the pics of DD, his mom, etc. I started to tear up. I didn't mean to and I tried SOOOO hard not to, but it just hurt. He was having me listen to some stuff he wrote/recorded and then noticed I was upset. I just said I was sad about the pics. He said "Well, I'm taking those bookshelves away anyway." [which I already knew he intended to do] Here is where it gets weird-- there is a poster sized collage my mom made for our wedding- on one side of the sheet is pics of me from baby on up, the other side pics of him from baby on up, then in the middle are pics of the two of us and the two of us with the kids, etc. She had written the Corinthians "and the greatest of these is love" quote. Put the wedding date on it. Of ALL the pics in the house, I had sort of thought this might be one of the first to go. It is located in the den/library. So it's not in the MAIN living area, but it can be seen when walking from the front door to the living room. ANYWAY- he walks into the den and says "I'm leaving this one up. I was looking at it the other day and thinking." I asked what about and he said "how cute...*I* am. haha. I was just thinking. [pause] I'm leaving it up as a reminder." I say "as a 'reminder', huh?" and he says "yup". Odd??

Go to Thai dinner. As usual for this restuarant, it was delish. Somehow convo ends up with us talking about cool places to travel- I mention how a tour company we have used has fantastic prices on trips to Thailand and he asks "when is there next trip?" I say I don't know and he says "look into it. We should go." ???!!! I did look into it and unfortunately the 19 day trip is starting Jan 23rd. No way for us to make that trip.

Go to Cloverfield. It was great except for the jerkiness of the camera made H sick- literally. He got ill a couple times outside the theater.

He is considering renting a room to one of the band members. (Apparently his band thing is going pretty good. They are now jamming at our/his house.) They are still in the beginning stages. Don't even have a name yet.

I stayed over. (Duh.)

He might come over for dinner sometime this week and to play our PS2 game.

There is a trip to Hong Kong/Japan/Taiwan at the end of Feb that I floated past him, but I don't know if he'll want to go since a good portion of it is on a cruise ship. He's "thinking" about it. I WISH the Thailand trip was scheduled more for March/April. Not sure where to turn to put together our own trip; would prefer a more 'guided' tour.

So, there you have it.
I am left going "Huh????"