Just out of curiosity, how would you rate the behavior of the OW? Was she playing the part of the innocent virgin princess
Pretty clearly not but that's part of my point. The same lack of integration that will cause a man to handle one woman too much like a china doll will vibe opposite in other situations. I think the more integrated a man is in his sexuality, the better able he will be to see/pet the bunny and see/spank the monkey in any woman in any situation. Of course, women "should" do their part by demanding to be treated with courtesy, respect and affection before, during and after any incident of getting their brains f*cked out and/or monkey spanked.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
