Fran "Fear of Intimacy" -
Sounds like a good book Fran.

Does anyone know of a web site that posts condensed versions of books?

Mojo Be strong monkey and bunny and get all the "affectionate man-handling" you want in a straight-forward strong/vulnerable manner.

"Affectionate man-handling", you say? I am for that. Next step is find a way to manhandle the Mrs. so she doesn't bite/cry/etc, the man that does the handling. :puzzled look:

We have to feel what we want and stop accusing ourselves of being babyish selfish when we want things.

Lil the big red roadblock: "YOU'RE BEING SELFISH!"
I hear you Lil. Same problem I here.

Lou