Good ideas and thanks. Yes I am am a very sensual and affectionate person with H at least. So I suppose I will take care of things myself for now...lol. When he says what he says about, "Will you stop!", it makes me feel like I must be repulsing him and then I think poorly of myself so I decided to stop asking and see what happens. Funny thing is that when we were together while I was the sexual one it never consisted of cuddling afterwards which he always wanted and I didn't. Hence little things like that I look back on now and realize that those types of things may/probably did have a hand in our current situation.
Both 35 T 19/M 15 years S8/D5 It's over bomb/ILYBNILWY 12-22-07
