but you are right as it is all about him right now
This seems to say it all. I am getting really tired of making my schedule around him, waiting to see if he calls or shows up. I was reading your thread when I heard my cell ring. It was in the other room and I didn't bother to get it because it was his ringtone. About 5 minutes later he called Ds phone. Usually he calls her phone right away if I don't answer. Maybe he was waiting to see if I would call back. I'm glad I didn't. Try as hard as you can BobbiJo to ignore your Hs calls sometimes. I'm guessing you have caller ID on your cell or you can set the ringtone for one that you will know is him. You need to take some control away from him. Let him know that you aren't sitting there waiting for him to call. I too have had trivial calls from my H that I think were him calling just to start a fight. H just brought up now getting a new furnace. I could tell he wasn't happy when I told him I don't want to dump money into the house right now. Again I question his motive as to if he is just trying to set us up for when he leaves for good. Is it time for the spaceship to come back for all these aliens yet?
