Originally Posted By: lwb
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Trying HARD not to make it about OW, keep reminding me of this.....




LWB I have a hard time with this also... EVERYBODY keeps saying this. But........Is it not true the OP COULD HAVE SAID NO..... If the other person would have said. WE CAN TALK but you are married... I will help you but I CAN"T SLEEP WITH YOU.....

No the OP is just as much to blame as our spouses..... SO when People are saying "it's not about the OP then they are saying the OP has right to not only distroy my marriage but his own also..... And is left unacountable????? I think Not...


Sorry but WE all made the mistake that when this situation first started WE NEEDED to put out foot down and bring EVERYBODY and EVERYTHING to the table.... By me keeping my silence I have condoned this.... There is a married woman in Washington who May think her husband is the most wonderfull man in the world.... Little does she know....

Sorry Just got a wild hair........

Husband

Last edited by husband; 01/20/08 05:30 PM.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know