Why do you feel such an immediate need to heep more pain on your sons by having her tell them she filed? You speak in one breath about your concern for them and in the next you want her to throw them for another loop. Leave it alone for now and do the work that you are supposed to do on yourself.
As for taking turns in the condo, I would not. In my opinion having been a MLC/WAW, I have to say that each and every time I was forced to live in what I'd chosen, it helped pave the way down the long and winding road that eventually led to my eyes being opened. You may choose otherwise in your sitch though.
Thank you for responding to my post. Your advice and wisdom are EXACTLY what I need. Of course I don't want to inflict more pain on my children-they are completely innocent in all of this. I just don't want to make it easier for my WAW to WA. Also, I will not be sharing time at my WAW condo per your suggestion.
I am not thinking too clearly and objective opinions such as yours are helping me get through this.
