lol lwb. love your answer. and i know we've already talked about this, but remember, your h had a huge role in the affair too, I'm sure he is telling you the side that makes him look better. he's putting his own spin on this, as much as he probably spun to the ow (my wife just doesn't understand me, blah blah blah).
more importantly, don't let him (or you) make your problems all about the affair. the affair is definitely a problem, don't get me wrong, but its a symptom of a bigger issue. if the affair suddenly goes away, the marriage is still in jeapardy until you guys focus on the real, deep down issues.
yes, I know you know this. but its easy to make it all about the OW and I do understand that very well myself, but keep your focus where it needs to be. try to keep ow OUT of your marriage.
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