Well this only reinforces in my mind that the whole wolf theory of Blackfoot, Stig and any others that buy into...it reinforces that it's a bunch of horse sh!t.
The theory is absolutely valid but also absolutely limited. If you are a man single or married and you want to get laid by a woman who is sexually aroused then you better vibe pretty wolf. However, it just isn't the case that anyone is pure wolf or any other animal in the zoo and it's better to be self-aware about your desire for things like simple affection and companionship and maybe even a bit of romance. I actually believe that the most rational way to make a decision about a LTR partner, given that you have your zoo in order, is on the basis of compatibility as companion. One dating book I read said that you might want to strongly consider whether the man you are dating would be someone you would want to have lunch with even if he was a woman. A lot of stuff in relationships can be worked out with strong boundaries but you can't really construct boundaries around issues like whether you find the same things to be funny.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
