Hi and thanks for your reply.

I do have a lot of anger inside me which I know doesn't help anyone, I just need to express it in a different way.

I had begun to 'deal' (as best i could) with my situation. had moved house, holidayed for the first time without my H, really made a different life for myself. He seemed to be moving on (although I often got little hints that that wasn't the case).

So, when he began to attempt a reconciliation i really was very confused and held off for a long time.

I just wonder what I did wrong (if anything) and what I can now do to keep him still interested. I do want my husband cabk and I do want to work on resurrecting this marriage.

I just don't know if I have any more fight left in me

Louise