I will take the advice given on this board-examine myself and leave my WAW alone.
One update:
WAW rented and moved into a condo on 1/7/08. She keeps suggesting we take turns living there to ease the transition for our 17S who is with me in our house. I know she is extremely upset about moving out of our house but she is the one who filed. I am torn about supporting my S but feel it extremely unfair that I should move out of my house (even temporarily)to make things easier for her. My S and I are doing fine though he admits to being "pissed" at our separation. Lots of things going on with my son (school,sports,exams,death of a close friend in early Dec) and I still can't believe my WAW chose Dec 27 to inform them (I have a college age son at Michigan State) of our S. The next hurdle is to tell them that WAW filed for D. Now that is going to be interesting.
Should I agree to "taking turns" with her at the condo she rented? When do I ask my WAW to tell the kids it's not just a S but a D-which she filed on 11/21/07?
