But you know I physically can't stop him from dating the OW, and according to DBing, I thought we were supposed to act friendly, happy, and detached which is what I have for the most part been doing. I did ask him to be discreet for the sake of the kids, to be a good role model for them, which he has refused to do (basically admitting to be a poor father I guess.) So are you both saying I should ask for separation or divorce at this point because of his actions?
