Hello, and sorry you're here....we are all in the same boat so to speak...I heard everything you are hearing...except my H still lives in my home and has OW..I am working on that...I have 3 children and all I can say is this is a long ride.....sometimes it will eat you up...sometimes you will get angry and want to throw in the towel...but if you love your H then hang in there...It's not you, it's him...I am still learning from all these wonderful people here...listen to their advice it is all wonderful.. It does take a while to do as they say but in the end we will be better people because of it.. Stop on over to my thread anytime...."how do they look themselves in the mirror"".
My H too worked late and I never thought anything of it because he has always worked late but I found out about OW 1 year ago..and it has been a year of pain and sadness...
Some day his greener grass will turn brown..take care of yourself..
Treese
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
