My WAH has the same cold demeanor. We've known each other since middle school, our first date was at the Pajama dance on Back to school night in 7th grade! I married him, carried his child, loved him when we had nothing and through all his good points and his faults, and he can't even smile and ask how my day was when he picks up d3?

We've been separated 1 month. Sometimes it feels like forever, he feels so far away, and then I read some other posts and I realize that this really is the beginning. There will be more months. And I will feel better. I already feel so so much better than even just a week ago.

In 2 weeks, I will feel better than now. And so will you \:\)

Congrats on building your life. This is the hardest thing I've ever gone through, and I give kudos to you who have battled longer than me. it shows me that I will be okay \:\)

*dated at age 12- 15 (me) and age 13-16 (him)
*reunited at age 19 (me) and age 20 (him)
*me 23, H 25
*married 3 1/2 years, 1 d
*dropped ILYBINILWY bomb on 12/19/07
*moved out same day, PA with OW confirmed