good luck Jon))) glad you are praying, the only way I get peace through my trials. About the gifts, if you want to test the waters you can start with a small bouquet of flowers, nothing too fancy and then wait (we are suckers for flowers \:\) )

Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.