He told me today that he has an appt with an attorney and he's going to file. ================================== It wouldn't surprise me if this is another mind game, that tomorrow he'll be telling you how you better change before he D's you, that he might change his mind if you turn into the "submisive" wife/slave he wants. I know it is hard to let go of the image of that good man you married, but it is necesary, glad you are realizing you are holding onto the ghost of what he used to be, that's why I keep saying 'let go'. Out of all the people in the whole DB board, I have never ever told anyone that they might be better off on their own, but I truly believe your H is psychotic and that you could be so much happier without him. My H did some hurtful stuff, lied and had an ow, but he never yelled at me, abused me verbally nor personally insulted me, in the end he acknowledged his faults and seeked help for his problems. When the respect is gone there isn't much left.
You can do so much better than him, you and your kids deserve so much better than this.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
