Chances are he is clueless about how much it really bothers you that he gets calls from other women and how different his life is now. It is very crucial you have a calm non accusatory talk and tell him how it makes you feel specially now that you both are building your M from the ground up and that trust is very shaky.

Trust will only be gained with time and both your effords, you by overcoming your fear and believing the best of him, him by being accountable. It will take time but it is possible. Piecing isn't easy but considering the alternative we are in a very good place \:\)


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.