Unfortunately just as I feared, the accidental blab of OM to the ILs came back to haunt me and may have put the final dagger in us. So now she thinks I've single handedly ruined her R with her parents, and I'm a chronic liar. Yes I did lie to her and said that I didn't say anything about OM to MIL when I did. In the 8 years we've been together, I've only lied twice to her including this time. And the first time was 7 years ago. How exactly does that make me a chronic liar is beyond me. I shouldn't have lied to her, and of course I shouldn't have said anything in the first place. I had no intention of turning her parents against her. I was upset and I ranted without thinking. MIL says W is totally overreacting to the fight with FIL yesterday. W says I have the answer to her decision. She will date when the opportunity arises. However, she promised we will discuss when she calms down and I told her not to make any rash decision until then. And just as I thought things were coming around a little.... I really do hope she calms down and rethink things through.....
On another note, MIL told me that W thought things were positive after Retro but then she saw some stuff she didn't like (of me?) and then pushed for D? WTF! In this state of us there are going to be positive and negative. Heck, even a normal R has that. I call that BS and still think it had something to do with that potential OM.
I swear I should get an Olympic medal for doing things that would shoot myself in the foot continuously.... Oh yeah, all the positives I've done since the beginning of the year are well down the toilet it seems....
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
