Mopsey,

I thought the same way you did.

I would rather he call me then the OW, it made me feel better but it really was very draining.

I had to turn off my phone at night beause he would also make random calls at night, and the time difference made me lose so much sleep.

Your Husband has a few similarities to mine, except my Husband was an overachiever and yet was also suffering with low self worth....so confusing.

It takes time and patience and you are doing such a great job of being there for him.

I do have to ask you a question.

You are available for your kids and their activities.

You are available for your Husband.

What are you doing for yourself???

Please don't get lost in the shuffle of MLC.

I am happy my Husband is home, but I also wish I had done more for myself during his absence.

((((((((hugs)))))))

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.