Originally Posted By: sandi2
Anyway, I still believe the treatment from your H has taken its toll on your sex drive. How could it not affect it?


of course it has. That's one of the reasons she asked for help.

Books on LD/HD relationships, arent all about telling the LD person "you are in the wrong". One of the things a good one does, is help the couple work together, in figuring out how the HD person's behaviour, might be negatively influencing the LD person's sex drive, and then offer possible ways the HD person might change their behaviour positively.


My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle