God Bless You! I am so dreading the day if/when my H takes legal action. But at this point your H has said he is starting proceedings, I assume that means there will be time for him to think about his decision. You, too. I hope this turns out however you want it to. I am sure it really sucks right now though, and I feel for you. I had been following your post and was hoping for a good lunch for you.