RJ, Cat, Aud and Jak, Thanks for your amazing support, as always.
Things have been going well. H and I have been really connected. He went to his C the other night. I waited a few days before asking him how it went. He said, "good. C says I seem happy". I simply said, "well, that's what we all strive for". Then I changed the subject. I didn't want him to feel that I was invading his privacy.
So for the last week or so, I've been feeling really good about things. I only checked the cell phone once in the last several weeks. I'm trying to lay off H and it seems to be the right thing to do.
Staying the course.
Cat, as for the ADHD, some of the symptoms you list are my H. He is very easily distraced. Seems to look for external stimuli. I'm going to let his C drive that process. Although H isn't going back to her until mid-Feb.
The next few weeks H is traveling a lot. And that's fine with me. I think the space is good for us.
Still doing the sould searching thing with regard to my faith. I suppose this is a work in progress, too.
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track
